I passed by the chips aisle twice already trying to avoid the temptation. But I knew I was seeking that crunchy sound and salty taste. Today found me vulnerable to my “comfort foods.” I wanted to choose NOT to eat them, but some days it is harder. Diet coke is another big trigger ... Continue Reading
A 96-year-old Man’s Grief Lights Up the World
An elderly man’s grief is inspiring people around the world thanks to the work of Green Shoe Studio. Possible you are one of the millions who have already heard the story. About a month after his wife died, Fred Stobaugh wrote a love song for her, “Oh Sweet Lorraine.” He sent the lyrics in for ... Continue Reading
Don’t Rush to the Bright Side
Recently at a Kohl’s department store, the sales clerk finalized my transaction and added a cheesy “You saved $26!” Laughing, I said, “You guys crack me up when you say that. The reality is I spent $49.” He replied, “But we like to look on the bright side!” I said, more seriously, “It’s a ... Continue Reading
Stephen Colbert’s Loving Tribute to His Mother
I have long respected Stephen Colbert’s perspective on grief. In earlier interviews, Colbert has shared insightful thoughts on grieving. Here is one example: “The interesting thing about grief, I think, is that it is its own size. It is not the size of you. It is its own size. And grief comes ... Continue Reading
Twelve Years Unspoken
Twelve years ago, our son died. The next day he was born, still. I know. It is backwards. There is nothing right about a child dying. Words often fail to capture our emotions. Either we cannot speak or there are no words. As a loving tribute to Zachariah, I share this ... Continue Reading
My Daughter’s Grief and a Box of Sticks
A beautiful pine tree, slowly dying, stood in our front yard. Realizing we would lose the tree brought sadness. My daughters enjoyed sitting on its low branches, especially when watching for their grandparents to arrive. It was their waiting place. My eight-year-old daughter knew that ... Continue Reading
What I Learn from Fear and Death
After hearing about the massacre of children and adults in a Connecticut elementary school, my heart ached for the families involved. The scope of their agony went beyond my imagination. In response to the killings, many parents commented about wanting to hug their children extra tight that ... Continue Reading
Is my Grandma’s grieving normal?
A student from class, Mary, came into my office and sat in an orange over-stuffed chair. We talked about a paper assignment. Then, hesitantly, she asked a question that probably brought her there in the first place. She tells about her grandparents. They had been married over 50 years, and just ... Continue Reading
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